"I think you'll be able to tell, but I can definitely tell you what is working." It should be better now, yes, because they're older and can actually talk about sex without being teenagers about it.

Hopefully.

Theoretically.

Starting with, "I should clarify that, um, I was definitely faking it in high school. I'm sorry, you have a lovely penis and I was always very fond of it, but god, babe, you never got me off with it, like not even the once. It was always your hands that did the trick."

She sounds apologetic, and more than a little amused, tilting her chin up to kiss him very softly and very lazily, barely a brush of her lips against his because it's so far.